Show Genuine Compassion

We know that you’re kind, and you do genuinely care about people. Sometimes it’s hard for people who disagree with you to see your compassion though, so it’s helpful to go a little out of your way to really directly say that you care.

A good rule of thumb is to start every one of your responses with some comment that creates good feelings. Affirm their concerns. Plainly state common ground. Compliment them for interesting arguments. Taking this extra step will only cost you a little breath, but it can go a long way toward making your conversation a friendly environment where it’s safe for people to change their minds.